| crazy sister in law... |
| my sister in law hates me. she has made my life hell more rthan once. when i wads pregnbant, she told everyone it wasnt my fiancees. she threatened toi push me down stairs that i would lose the baby. just stupid stuff that made my life miserable through the whole pregnancy. finally after her brother, my fiancee, told her if she called me again he would call the cops, she stopped acalling. but everytime we would have a holidya or anything at his moms house, she would make snood comments to me. well, when ella was born she came to the hospital to see her and held her. it made me uncomfortable, but mitch wanted her to at least see her once. now hse is trying to make things better. i odnt feel ok with it. it makes me very uncomfortable. anyone that threatenbed my daughterts life has no biusness seeimng her or touching her. i dont know what to do. it would be easier bto get along, but i dont trust her at all. what hould i do?? |
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| well, my situation was very similar, only it was my daughter's father throwing the threats, begging me to give her up for adoption, threatening to find me and beat me up so that I would lose the baby. My mother called him right after I had her, and told him to come down and be a man and take care of his daughter. Well, he held her for the first time and he was a better man, no more threats, so I forgave him, we both agreed that it would be better for our daughter to not have conflict around her, but that only lasted 3 months until we went to court for child support since he wasn't giving me anything. In your case, forgive your sister in law, give her one more chance, if she becomes over bearing or aggressive, especially around your daughter, then you are going to have to sit down with her and discuss why it bothers you and ask her if she could watch her actions and words when around your daughter. I can promise you one day you'll both will get over the hurt and anger and be friends. |
| posted by Bethanne on 07/12/2007 |
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| i have talked to her and she is very immature for being 22. she blew nme off at first, but niow she is coming around. i find it hard bc what shew did ti mo is horrible. thank you, i guess i needed to hear it fromk a stranger rathert thasn family. how did your situation turn out? |
| posted by Devon on 07/12/2007 |
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My Ex and I are currently in a heated Custody battle, I'm trying to make things work between us, but he is angry and bitter about having to pay child support so he refuses to get along even for the 5 minutes it takes to exchange our daughter. I just want my daughter to grow up knowing that two people don't have to like eachother to get along, and that despite the fact that we are together, we are still a family.
I also need to tell you that as a 22 year old, I was angry and very agressive but in just 3 short years i have matured and become an adult. Sometimes people progress slower than others, for me it took losing alot of friends to make me realize that I wasn't the center of attention and not everything needed to happen the way I wanted it to. So give her time, like I said before, think about when you are 50, and your daughter is older than you are now, will it matter what she said, as long as she didn't do it, and she has your Daughters entire life to make up for it. Remember the phrase... sticks and stones, will hurt my bones, but your words will never hurt me... you can't let someone's anger affect you emotionally, inside that person has deeper issues that they may need to work out. |
| posted by Bethanne on 07/13/2007 |
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| thank you |
| posted by Devon on 07/13/2007 |
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