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| last night ella went to bed very good. i was glad as i had a migrain. about midmight she woke up. i go in to give her her pacifier. doesnt work. 5 attempts to rock her to sleep and 5 failed attempts. im nearly in tears bc my head hurts. so, i bring her in to our bed. fell right to sleep. a friend of our family killed their 3 m,onth old from co-sleeping, the dad rolled on him and suffocated him. i dont ever want to do this again. im upset with myself for doing it. |
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hey,
dont beat yourself up for something you did once. I co-sleep with my daughter, I never planned on doing it but having a c-section and her dad traveling a lot when she was born it was just easier for me. I am also a lite sleeper so when she is in our bed I tend to wake up and check on her. Now that she is older I wait until she falls asleep and then put her into the crib. |
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| i had a c section too, but i didnt handle it well and couldnt sleep in a bed for about 2 weeks. it just scares me. |
| posted by Devon on 08/29/2007 |
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| I am not trying to be rude, but if you are not comfortable dont do it. I worry less now because she is a year old and big enough to move or push me or the blanket out of the way. I am sorry for your friend, what a horrible thing to go through. |
| posted by on 08/29/2007 |
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Devon, you can get one of these mini-beds that you put in the bed for co-sleeping, it prevents an adult from rolling over.
here is one example:
http://www.pregnancystore.com/snuggle_nest_bed.htm
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| posted by Vero on 08/29/2007 |
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| it wasnt rude jackie. your right. i think im more mad at myself for not dealing with it better. i had a screaming migraine and no patience. her dad put her back in her crib like 2-3 hours later. she has been such a mamas girl lately that she wont let me put her down once i have her. the last couple of days she screams if i leave her line of vision, so once i have her in my arms to sleep she wont let me put her down. i jsut runlow n parience once bed time comes around. i have since the day she was born. thats my weak thing. |
| posted by Devon on 08/30/2007 |
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| as long as you or dad put her the crib it should be ok. It also sounds like she is having some seperation anxiety. This started with emilie at about 6 months and it did pass it a few weeks. Sometimes I have to do what ever it takes to get her to sleep and it does get frustrating. hang in there you are not alone. :-) |
| posted by on 08/30/2007 |
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