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I gave my baby girl up 4 adoption her name was ava she was a year old yesterday and i caqnt stop crying i need some help is there anyone out there |
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Hi,
How are you doing today? I think it is normal to feel the way you do and to be sad. You should write down your thoughts during this time. I think it helps to vent. You know you did what you did because you love her and want the best for her. Maybe in your journal you can write her letters. Maybe someday if you are reunited you can share them with her. I'm so sorry your heart aches. I'm here to listen if you need me. I hope you find peace with this decision.
Kim Jarrell |
| posted by Kimberly on 08/23/2009 |
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Sabrina...we adopted a little boy over 6 years ago and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't thank the mom for making that choice for him. I always keep the mom in our prayers, although we have never met and will never as it was an international adoption....always hoping she is doing well and at peace with her decision. Adoption has changed our lives.
I'm sure at milestones, it is very difficult to remember the baby you had.....but also know that your decision was one based on your love for that baby, one that you made based on your maturity as to what you knew you could handle at the time, one that was best for the baby. Truly an unselfish act of love that is difficult to compare to any other love. You are a strong woman and for everything you have gone through, and feel....it has made you stronger.
Please take care,
Liz |
| posted by Liz on 08/23/2009 |
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| I have a cousin that was adopted into our family, my aunt and uncle could not have children. They went through so much and waited so long for her. They were so blessed with a beautiful baby girl, this was about 13 years ago, she is very loved and wants for nothing,, riding lessons, swimming lessons, private tutors, you name it, but mostly she has two parents that love her very much and would move the earth for her. Hope this helps for you to see that your child was chosen by someone that loved them before they even got there. |
| posted by Dawn on 11/05/2009 |
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| It will be okay. I was adopted.I new my mother had to do what she had to do. I never hated her for that. I actually loved her for it. She put my life before her own. she new i would be better off.I can never thank her enough. I did get the honor to meet her before she passed. Its the best thing she could of ever done. I cant imagine what it feels like on the other side but i can say you had to be wonderful mother cause you thought about her future and what kinda life she can have. |
| posted by amanda on 11/07/2009 |
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| I am in sort of a similar situation. My baby girl was not given up for adoption but a gay couple took her from me and i have no money to get her back in my arms. It's perfectly reasonable to have that longing love for your child and even if she has been adopted out she is still yours in your heart. |
| posted by Joyce on 11/16/2009 |
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