Right now I am SUPER sad. My husband of eight years (together 16 years) was having an affair. It's all unraveled over the last two weeks and I'm just So So Sad. I feel like a mess and all I wantt to do is cry all of the time. After all of these years of being "on guard", I finally let my guard down and he cheated on me. I don't even have enough energy to be angry. I'm just SO sad and hoping that I can find a way to deal with it so that it doesn't affect my daughters anymore than it has to.