I personally think it's okay to spank my daughter on the hand or bottom. Example. She continues to try and stick her finger in a socket after time outs and no treats, after explaining hy she shouldn't do it. So next time (third time) I spank her hand to show her it will hurt.
She tries to run off in the parking lot... So I spank her bottom once firm but not to hard and explain that a car hitting her will hurt much more.
I think of course there are other ways to raise children because each child is different. What's your thoughts? Please no bashing be an adult.
I agree with you 100% I try to do the smae with my stepson but my hubby doesn't feel the same. We set rules but he lets our son get away with things anyhow, every now and then he will stick to something. But it is so hard because each day the rules are different.